Dear lovable's Marriage is not Life Security

Mostly people think marriage is a Life security for life time, Actually its a commitment and Attachment towards your most loved person,I mean about  your  Life partner.

In some nations they provide Social security number to identify their citizens ,They use this social security number and provide them benefits of the nation.By using this system they are safe guarding their nationalities wherever they are around the globe.

In some Companies they provide Job securities to secure and safe guard the Job to particular person on behalf whatever the situation occurs , They retain the Job by using Job security.

Such a way now a days people are thinking Choosing a life partner and getting into marriage is a Life security for life time,

In India there are several wedding customs according to their religion,caste and their living area,
They are just different kind of rituals carried by variety of various people during marriage occasion ,
What-so-ever if a couple falls in true love means then rituals and customs are doesn't matter.
even they don't need to get married (Living Together) (we will talk about it later) .

I'm now going to discus only about  Indian Tradition of marriage Life and their break ups.

Why Most Marriages fails (to perform):  

(perform what you mean ? Its not a machine) 

                                      Don't know exactly why most marriages fails but this may be the main reasons, Now a days People think their life partner as a Social security ,Job security and Life security , They don't see the persons inner heart and soul of love , They just marry a person who has and provides life security,Its nothing defined by position,money and wealth,They just want to get settle in good wealthier position and they fail to settle in a happy married life .Choosing wrong partner on parents compulsion also leads to break up in married life ,Ego clashes on some issues between partners may lead to break up , Failure in sexual arousal also leads to break up,For health issues/Accidental damages/Loosing sight/organ damage without any grace they just break up  and there are several facts for to get failed in married life ,Every break ups has its own reasons,we can't go into each facts of break ups I just focus upon the common facts about it.

"They live without mutual understanding and they break up with mutual understanding as divorce" (Kavithai da Krishna (Yennamo Poh) ) .

In past they lived Happily :
                                    In early days most of the Indians had successful marriage life , They even had two partners three partners but they lived happily without any failures in married life ,less populated time and no pressure,no frustration no depression around them no need of extra things , anxiety was very less, People don't worried about their sexual life from their teen age to death they just enjoyed sex whenever they got erections.They don't worried about the world they don't had any competition with neighbours/relatives and they were not greedy on others wealth (Who said ?) yes they had but it was very less,
Mostly there were only arranged marriages were the persons don't know each others before their marriage and they got in bond over night of their marriage day and for till death they were together happily,Most of them had a successful married life in the past.

For a Happy married  Life :
                                                     Some partners are living without seeing each other for months, years.Where they live at different places due to work nature but amount of love in between them doesn't gets decrease.Like this we can witness several happy living partners around us , Questions may arise how they lead their married life so happily because they adjust with each other also they understand each others ability and inabilities,They just carry forward their life even though whatever the situation comes,they never loose their hope and bond on their relationship . Money and wealth is not important in a healthy relationship,If one partner loose his job means they will adjust and the other will run the family they won't express their disappointment towards each other.They celebrate their life each and every moment . They don't try to live a filmy life as we see in love and romance over hyped cinemas .They just move together as friendly.

Everything comes at right time and by the same way Everything goes at right time.
That's the nature of our life.
Enjoy Life 

to be continued.............

Searching for my girl
Krishna Kumar G

How are you ? I asked myself

Ya I'm not fine ,

Seems to be I'm the only person in this world being left alone for not pursuing Pride,Envy,Gluttony,Greediness,lust,Anger and no affection over my life.

Thanks for the persons who hurt me ,
Even though I behaved in good manner,You recognised me as a bad person,Because I don't have much money to prove I'm good ,

I have nothing in my hand , that's the truth .

I was really innocent and happy

Why you came again idiot ?

Do you know you have again made a sin against me , What I've done for you ?
Why you did it to me again ?

It ruins my mind all the time ,

Caste Based Reservation is not Economic (Financial) status Based Reservation

Just know the difference between them , In India we have the law only for Caste based reservation and we don't have direct law for Financial or Economic status based reservation .Creamy layer is not a term used under Financial based reservation its an inner part of caste based reservation and don't compare it with financial based reservation. Actually in India we don't have a direct law for Financial based reservation what actually you are seeking for. Economic Status based reservation is not Caste based reservation.

I hope you understood , Ask government to create a new law for Financial based reservation which is totally different from Caste based reservation . When we make a new law for Financial based reservation in India, Therefore financially poor people will get benefits from government and private sectors without disturbing the caste based reservation.

Yes Economy status is important in reservation system, But why you should fight with the cased based reservation you just make a new law which gives direct power to Economic based reservation system .No need to intersect both laws because both are different ,Nearly 30% of India's Population is under below poverty line.They need reservation not only on caste basis reservation but also the reservation should be provided with Economic based reservation .

In Economy based reservation no need to verify people with caste , Just have to see their economic financial status of their family annual income . By calculating their financial status with below poverty line make a ceiling scale to provide opportunity to those people who were under Economy based reservation.Don't merge Caste based reservation and Economic based reservation which will give a lot of confusion.Just view only their Economic status and provide them the benefits of economic based reservation, even though if they were receiving benefits under Caste based reservation .

Caste based reservation is under Indian law which provides reservation to the people who were under caste discrimination for years , Who were not given opportunity in many sectors for their caste status even though they are financially rich , They even have Creamy layer to stop the government  benefits for the wealthier and educated people .

Remember Caste based reservation is not Economy based reservation its different , You have been mislead by some groups and political parties , Caste based reservation problem is totally different .

Ask government for new Economy based reservation law

I also suggest stop caste discrimination first and then  ask government for No Caste and give up your caste then  get free from caste system, Instead if you can't do it don't ask government to stop Caste based reservation.

Just Shut up and Go Away

Krishna Kumar G

Remember

No Caste is essential but not for the replacement of Economic based reservation .
No caste is essential only to stop caste discrimination

(People asking to stop Caste based reservation are the people who are most affectionate to their caste status and the people who discriminate the lower caste people.If they are really worried about nation development is affected by caste system then they have to give up their caste first)

Facts :

Every SC/ST people wants to eradicate caste system from India due to discrimination but other caste people don't want to do that instead they want to keep the caste system and point out that beneath of SC/ST reservation others are not getting opportunities in all sectors (Government).Actually they are not catching up the main point of eradicating caste system in India .
 After India's Independence still three generations of SC/ST's were affected by caste discrimination. Indian government not yet found the real solution for it . But General caste category people wants to pull all the opportunists of SC/ST's and again wants to make them poor.They can't bare (Tolerate) the upcoming of the SC/ST people, In their life time they using very less opportunities provided by SC/ST reservation laws.

Election is Festival in India

From the date of Election Commission announces the Election date the Election festival rituals begins . Do you want to know more about the Indian Election and its process just search in the internet.

What is Election period ?
Its the days between the Election announcing date and the Election result date .

What rituals happens in Election festival ?
Oh wait wait common its different What is Election Festival mean ?

Election festival is celebrated during Election period , Its like a spring festival people enjoy during the election festival , They get bonus money for their enjoyment,They get sweets ,gifts and liquors from the election contesting party .

Election festival rituals are just watching election party meetings with payment of food (biriyani) and money , During Election period political party members come to our house and greet us,with flyers they give money and gifts ,They act like good people we can see this comedy fun and enjoy.We can see people with Microphone and speakers roaming all around in the name of Election campaign , Election commission will watch the political parties  movement and seize their wealth and money if they misbehave with their election rules, These are the things called Election rituals.

People really enjoy during these election festival.

Political parties spend black money from their pocket once plugged from the common people,But during Election festival People get more money from political parties and they spend this money in various ways so that the economy of that place increases suddenly and gives up a boost in financial growth .Economy development increases in India during Election period,Even Election commission says getting money for vote is punishable crime ,its offensive and its against law .

Voter is the important person in the election and common person becomes the voter,They enjoy this festival by being satisfied with their basic needs ,They get good water,good roads during this election period.During election voting day each voter vote for their interested candidates,Their will be tight security arrangement on vote polling station and around the nation even though violence will occur at many places , This violence also one of the part of this festival,Without political party violence polling day will not look good its the iconic part of this festival.

During the Election result day Election festival ends by choosing their most money spend candidate as the winner and that person becomes the ruler of the nation, People distribute sweets ,throw colour powders on each others,they play music they dance and they burst fire crackers ..

Later next day onwards people go to their work as usual and they suffer lot in their life till they have their next Election festival , Probably it will be held on every five years ,Sometimes it happens in between too.

Enjoy your Election festival #Election2016 #India

By a Voter during Election festival

Krishna Kumar G

Sister Rahmadh

Sister Rahmadh was a good girl next to my house 1993,I was in age of 10 , She might be at age of 15 or 16, She was so friendly to our family,She was forcefully made to stop her school education by her parents ,Orthodox Muslim family , his father had 2 wife's,She was born to 2nd wife,As a neighbour I've seen her Mom only  twice or thrice , She never used to come outside of her room,She won't speak to others ,she just stay in home,Rahmadh had one younger sister and 2 elder brothers Kadhar and Jaffer both are good persons, Jaffer was a handsome guy (my gf use to say that) who speak politely ,Later came to know that he built a Hindu temple (recently visited that place but he was not there now).

I only had close contact with only sister rahmadh because she is friendly and use to enter our home without knocking the door,Mostly she will be in our home,She come and share cooking with my Mom,She rides my cycle when her father is away,She had very strict father,He is a cricket fan and who supports only the Pakistan team,During 1996 World cup we use to clap hands when Indian cricket team hits 6 score and he use to jump and dance when India looses wicket , This will make me angry but Rahmadh will say leave him he is like that only we can't change him,Rahmadh supports Indian players,

I use to steal guava fruit from their garden (childish) Rahmadh will say don't get caught to my father,Ask me I'll give or plug the fruit when my father is away , Later her father started counting Guava and found many missing ,I was about to get caught red handed ,Rahmadh said her father as she only plug the fruit from the tree and ate that,such a way she use to protect me.

Daily morning she use to read news paper and use to show me the important news in it,She use to discuss about it.She knows everything happening around the world,

During festivals she come and prepares sweets and snacks with my Mom and learn cooking in our kitchen , My Mom use to cook Biriyani to their family during Ramzan festival, their family once tasted our biriyani and said it to their other Muslim friends ,Later next year nearly 3 Musilim families came to our house for biryani preparation , Later my Mom cooked for them and became so tired ,My Mom said to Rahmadh don't say to others , We can only cook for your family only ,

Mostly I use to fight with her as she is taking more responsibility in our home because its childish manly nature , I don't like other girl taking part in all things in our home but she forgets that and again comes to my house on next day as casual .

She use to deal with my street friends problems , Whenever I get into fight with them, even once she was in between when I was fighting with a guy rolling in roads of our streets then she came and  stopped the fight and took me away,
Same way I use to deal her problems when some guy intercepts her way .

All the time I use to play cricket , the biggest disturb to my street neighbours, I'll break the windows,I use to seasoning the bats by hitting the hanging balls  it makes huge noise all the time around the apartment  and If I win a cricket tournament I use to come and say to her ,She will be happy,

At last they were searching bridegroom for her,she had health issue so it was going late,

Her father use to give loans for interest and she use to say to me as its against Islam but she can't say it to her father,But one day in  conversation with her father I said this to him .

her father got retirement from job in year 2000 and they went somewhere else. Without sharing any contacts with us.

Now I don't know where their family is ... She may have grown up kids now and they may live somewhere else in this world,
I like to see them and I want to make her to meet my Mom,If possible.

Sharing Old memories .

Learn History but don't Live in History

"Learn History but don't Live in History" World's biggest problem begins when people try to live in their histories .

Each ethnic groups around the world have their own history.

to be continued ...............

Me and my Back Pain

I'm seriously suffering with my back pain nearly for 10 years
Two years took medication  and later left that because of side effects , I was just sleeping for long hours and loosing concentrations due to medicines .
I've lots of sports injuries , I was a Football Goal keeper in my school have to bare lots of kicks on my face and Cricket player as I had my own team as from my young age,I use to train them in various ways, as a fast bowler having natural shoulder injury .
Faced Many bike accidents in that year 2013 Nov  faced more internal injuries which kept me in bed for nearly 3 months still I have those pains even after 2 years ,

Back bone
Mild diffuse disc bulge is noted L4-L5-S1 interverteberal disc

Neck
Desiccation of nucleus pulposus noted at multiple levels
Diffuse disc bulge noted at C5-C6 and C6-C7 levels,

At both
There is no evidence of compression of thecal sac or neural exit foramen seen.

Ribs

Hurt my ribs by falling on my bike handle bar and but now its cured ,Suffered breathing at that time,can't able to expand my lungs at that time of injury, I just made my self cool and relaxed and stopped my nervousness took my breath very slowly ,Matter is I had cold cough within 2 days of injury by drinking polluted water and suffered lot at every cough which I can't able to control it,

I don't had person to take care so I've to cook and clean myself and have to take care of my Mom (Schizophrenia) , So I had lot of problem at that time.Even at that time I had fallen from steps by loosing my balance .

Yet no stitching on my skin , My blood clots so fast , Wound runs away so fast with no marks naturally.

For me every part is in pain always ,Every moment is pain,
I don't care about those pains , I just keep on moving ,

I don't like to say this as an issue to create sympathies but just want to share it with you.
which makes me feel better .

Sample Prescriptions :

NOTA vs NOTTO

NOTA (49 O) is a useless way to describe about your choice while casting your vote in election.

Indian Election commission gave a 'None of the above' (NOTA) option to show up that you don't like none of the candidate contesting in your constituency .
You may find this NOTA  option in Electronic voter machine (EVM) at the end of the row (button) .
If you press this button your vote will be calculated as NOTA , This ensures that you have not selected any candidate .
Election commission just needs every people to cast their vote even though they don't like their candidate and it ensures that no one casts your vote as a fraudulent or duplicate vote for other person.So don't forget to cast your vote.

Disadvantages of NOTA (49 O)  : If you cast your vote for NOTA (49 O) means it becomes total waste , Actually its like a dummy button in EVM it just calculates the count and shows up the result as NOTA and NOTA is not a ruler or MP or MLA its just a option instead for them.

Example 1 : If A candidate gets 165000 votes and B candidate gets 134300 votes and C candidate gets 12230 votes and NOTA gets 234 votes and the result will be declared as  A candidate as the winner ,who gets high number of votes .B and C are considered as looser .Don't worry about NOTA.

Example 2 : If NOTA gets 186200 and A candidate gets 23400 and B candidate gets 44214 and C candidate gets 32552 votes and the results will be declared as 'B' candidate as the winner ,here B candidate didn't got high number of votes when compare to NOTA but Election commission will declare B as the winner even though NOTA gets high number of votes it become useless.

NOTA is not the real person or the government its an imaginary one created to show up your desire as you don't like your candidates , This option encourages people to cast their vote without wasting it.

NOTTO Everyone should know about it , NOTTO is "National Organ & Tissue Transplant Organisation" its an important one,once you register in,You pledge yourself as organ donar and then you will receive an hand written ID card and keep it safe . NOTTO HELPLINE No: 1800114770 Download Pledge Form  Webpage  http://notto.nic.in .
Donate your organs to the needy one, Once you died your organs can live on other persons body ,if you agree to donate it.Then register in this website and inform your family members about it as you  have pledged to donate organs after death , This will ensure them to give up your organs after your death.they have to inform your death as soon as possible to the given toll number or contact near by Government General hospital RMO ,They will come and check up and take up your dead body to remove organs and they will return it in hours before your relatives reach home to perform your last rituals.

NOTA and NOTO both may sound similar but both are different and has a common thing only age 18 and above can do it (apply it) .

Dear Nasty Girl You are in a Unnecessary Feminine Branding

Women are being used and Targeted for Branding , Marketers need women for everything Models are created by them for branding , Girls are made to be nasty in branding products .

Feminine Branding for Men : To sell shaving cream a women  have to appear in ads ,To sell Men's body deodorant women have to smell men arm pit, To sell men underwear women have to fix it at right place,To sell men condom women have to be naked. this is how we need women for branding men items , Have you ever seen men selling bra's ? Have you even seen men selling nail polish , have you even seen men selling lipstick . I think now you got my point , We also need only women for branding ,We also need more wild cats and not homely one's in branding .

Feminine Branding for women : world worst thing is a women is needed to be branded for herself ,
even women like themselves to be branded , If you choose a women as a model then she would be happy instead she won't be ignoring that opportunity , Because branding themselves gives them identity,luxury life and everything else they want. At this point they won't care about feminism,If they are in act of feminism means they will loose the opportunity of branding,Hope calender girls are not feminists,Sports illustrated,Play Boy,Fashion,Maxim and most of the popular magazines are sold only with half naked women as cover photo .

Ads you see again and again and doesn't makes you bored :
                                      Get fair skin in 30 days ,Get flat stomach in 30 days,Whitening you teeth in 30 days,Girls bathing naked and smelling soaps to sell ,Smiling beautiful Air hostess to say our destination,Jewellery ornaments ads only traditional female has been used,In all fashion products girls will appear to give different types of gesture for background music,  If I left any ads to say don't worry and be sure it also may be branded by women.
Pink colour everywhere used to attract users, Very rarely male models are used to branding products and mostly they won't be advertising female products,

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Story of Asylum seekers (Refugees)

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War in Syria made their own country people as refugees and Due to continuous war they were shattered around the world as refugees .

Israel Palestine conflict made many homeless food less and there is insufficient of daily needs for Palestine people. Gods war and its War for Land .

Burma Refugees,Bangladesh Refugees, Nepal Refugees,Sri Lanka Tamil Refugees and Pakistan Refugees are not a biggest problem in India.Until they were in the Indian media spotlight.

African Refugees to European Union countries ,Risk their life for a biggest travel,Many loose their life on their mid way,Extreme hot Sahara kills them or Later Mediterranean Sea water Swallows them as the result of over loaded boats.

Mexico refugees in U.S. were the biggest economic issue for U.S. it gives worst fear because sometimes drug dealers invade through borders as refugees , U.S shoot them at sight if they spot them crossing the border.

Australia has the worlds worst people in handling refugees ,They just kill refugees in Sea by just capsizing their ships.They don't even give water to drink .They have large inhabited land but they won't share it with other people .They are very strong in handling refugees issues .

and I'm not assuring all other remaining countries are good at refugees , There may be a land to welcome refugees in this world somewhere else, Refugees at each time getting increased and this may also becoming a biggest problem to the asylum providing nation .

No one knows when their own life will turn upside down and they will become refugees in matter of seconds ,So please help refugees atleast by providing them basic needs . Let their children get education and good life,Let them breath the freedom in your homeland.Just give comfortableness to them.World is for everyone .